 | loses his / her temper frequently or easily |
 | has a family history of physical or psychological abuse |
 | stops you from seeing or talking to friends and family |
 | embarrasses you with bad names and put downs |
 | monopolizes your free time |
 | intimidates you with words or weapons |
 | shows a sense of overkill in cruelty or kindness |
 | threatens to take away or hurt your children |
 | acts like abuse is no big deal or is your fault |
 | threatens or harms pets |
 | controls the household finances |
 | threatens to kill themselves if you leave |